BWM 25/100 – Stop being an a$$hole!

 BWM 25/100 – Stop being an a$$hole!
BWM 25/100 – Stop being an a$$hole!

I originally planned on writing about my first business breakfast and networking in this post but I believe this topic is more important.

Here’s why

I have received the following message from a professional network “I follow the looseness of your development. Not in details of course, but one or another metamorphosis you have been through. Content wise and also visually really exciting! Please allow (and understand my openness as a compliment): for my personal, subjective, stuffy taste there is one ring too much on the picture. (My nose piercing, we spoke about it before). My impression: This is not really you. So I know I’ve put myself on thin ice by saying this and I hope that you do not regard this as inappropriate. If you feel comfortable with it: leave it in!”

Absolutely limited by my appearance rather than my actions. Btw this person does not really know me at all.

This is what happened in the last two years – action wise

For roughly two years a lot of stuff has happened – otherwise then getting pierced. I’ll put it in a short list. These are my accomplishments as you might want to name it. I am not writing those to show off but to give a sense of what people could have seen in my life.

2014-2016

  • moved abroad
  • started and finished a postgraduate degree (MSc Global Leadership)
  • worked while studying full-time
  • have read as many non-fictional books on personal growth like never before
  • started this blog and am blogging regularly since a year, document what I have learned and try to save other people’s time by providing book summaries for example, try to deliver value in a nutshell
  • increased my English to a pretty good level
  • worked employed
  • got engaged and married
  • found all my braveness and started my own company, quit my job and am trying to make my dream work
  • got a piercing

So, you might think “why did she put the piercing there?” – because it’s the ONLY thing I get reduced to by a couple of people.

Being a woman on a professional social network

Other messages I have received to profile changes on LinkedIn and Xing are “there is something in your nose”, “you looked prettier before” – some people also like it. Then I get from business contacts messages like “:-*” or “what if I would have sent you a picture that would make you blush?”.

 BWM 25/100 – Stop being an a$$hole!
BWM 25/100 – Stop being an a$$hole!

Let’s just get this straight. A kissing smiley is NOT from someone close to me or on Facebook. It’s on a professional network with people I am connected with as business contacts! Btw. this message is harmless. Trust me, there are different other people on those networks who totally seem to get the purpose (professional business) of these networks wrong. I would have not posted this post if it would have happened only once or with only one person. But it happens even after I tell people I am married and behave professionally.

Anyways… I have written this post to just create a tiny bit of awareness. We should stop judging people by their appearance – btw. my weight is something to be discussed all the time as well. We should stop pressure our opinion on people – it’s simply not always relevant. We should accept that women have ambitious goals they want to reach too. And some of us only want to be the best version of ourselves.

Btw working on yourself is f****ing hard!!

Wishes for the future?

Stop hating, stop criticising. Why don’t we rather start supporting and empowering people in our network like we would do with celebs?

 

Build with me – Day 14 as a female founder and full-time entrepreneur

BWM – Build with me SalesTrainerIn and help me becoming an Entrepreneur – Day 14
BWM – Build with me SalesTrainerIn and help me becoming an Entrepreneur – Day 14

Being a founder is super exciting. Being able to create your own reality is super fun. Being in charge for your own salary etc. can be tensing. Being a one-man show means a LOT to do. These are just a couple of changes I am currently going through and thoughts I have.

Another questions I ask myself all the time is “Is it OK to take a day off, at the beginning?”. With a day off I mean not working the weekends, not working on Sundays. There are various, different opinions about this topic out there.

Massive action – hustle non stop

Some say as a new entrepreneur you have to set super high goals and smash the shit out of them. Yeah, I can get that. However, I believe this whole “massive action and we are all just working for the next 10 years to then retire” kind of thing is very very big on Instagram. Is this the real world? Is this even something one should want to aspire? I’m not sure. Where is the fun?

Smash it and recharge! Not your baby!

Some other camps say “yes, smash the shit out of your goals but don’t forget your real life”. LIVE! And I guess I am totally on this side. Of course, everyone who has the imagination of becoming ones one boss because they want to work less will probably get disappointed. This is not how it works I guess. You want to work less? Stay or get an office job with option for remote working and become more productive. I guess, this is the easiest way to work less. When you are alone there is a whole lot of work to do – you literally have to do everything. Of course, you can outsource but you still have to do the outsourcing bit and brief virtual assistants etc. on what to do.

Project Management – work it, Girl

This is something that is pretty challenging. Structuring the whole work load. It’s like a massive project that needs to be set up, managed and accomplished.  It’s great to have the opportunity to work this. It is what literally kicks me out of bed in the morning – although I am absolutely not a morning person.

Some advice, please?? 🙂

How do build your business? Have have been built your business? Any tipps? Would love to share some best practice and learn from experienced founders.

Thanks,

Stephanie

Stop playing business via SalesTrainerIn

My first blog post “stop playing business” on my business page SalesTrainerIn went online. Have you checked it out yet? If not here is the link.

"Stop playing business!" via SalesTrainerIn Stephanie Profitlich
“Stop playing business!” via SalesTrainerIn Stephanie Profitlich

Looking forward for your feedback,

thanks,

Steph

My Nut Share goes YouTube

Hi everybody,

I’m a bit excited as I filmed today my first ever Vlog! The format is weird and I didn’t know how to cut it properly … well, to cut it at all .. but here it is. And remember the  saying ‘If you are not totally embarrassed by the first version of your product, you launched too late”. So this been said. Now, enjoy, have fun and let me know what you think. And of course I would appreciate if you would follow mynutshare on YouTube (and of course on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook …  😉 )